I thought I would share something with you. If you haven't read the book "The Five Love Languages" - by Gary Chapman. You need too. It isn't just for married folks, it will make all your relationships easier. I know that Gary and I have a better marriage with this book. Gary's is Words of Affirmation and mine is Physical Touch. We tend to talk in our own language, meaning I touch Gary thinking that this will show him how much I love him. But what he really needs is words. I have also noticed that he needs specifically words of encouragement. You would think this would be easy for me, I rarely am at a loss of words. I sometimes find it really hard to encourage Gary, because I think he is the most amazing man in the world and I would think he knew this. I tend to over think - I have to remember that even the simple things Gary needs to hear how I feel. Even if I think it doesn't really matter. I have reread the section on Words of Affirmation a ton of times, so that I can fill my husband's love tank. I know that he is happier with a full love tank. I also noticed that it needs to be refilled everyday. So I think of it emptying in the night - because I'm not talking to him. I just want to thank God for Gary Chapman, for writing this book. Praise God.